SoloWith: Going Out Alone
Paste the event link or snap the poster. Get a plan for that night with three openers that fit, rehearse it in two minutes, and get one-tap help at the door.
SoloWith is in its last round of testing. Pre-register on Google Play to hear the day it's out.
SoloWith is for the evenings you'd rather not skip: a board-game night, a language exchange, a run club, a gallery opening, your first meetup in a new city. It turns one specific event into a short, friendly plan – and then helps you actually go.
Paste a Meetup, Eventbrite or Facebook link – or snap the poster – and get a plan for that event: what to expect, when to arrive, three openers that fit its theme and crowd. Not generic small-talk tips: lines that mention the actual night ("Is this your first Catan night too?").
The AI plays someone you'll meet there. Three quick exchanges and you leave with your own line – saved for later. Pick how chatty they are: warm, neutral or a bit busy. Stop whenever you like.
One tap when you freeze outside: your opener, one tiny first step, and a graceful exit if you need it. Permission to leave makes it easier to go in.
Note who you met and get one easy message to send – so a chat becomes a connection. A two-tap check-in, no diary, no scores.
No profiles, no matching, no feed – nobody can find you through SoloWith. Your events stay yours, and you can export or delete everything at any time. Start as a guest; add a login only if you want a backup.
About five minutes, most of it before you leave the house.
Both are fine tools. They just solve a different problem than the one you have on Thursday night.
It can write openers if you paste the details and ask the right way. But it won't remind you before you leave, it isn't one tap away when you freeze at the door, and it won't check in the next morning. The hard part is the timing, not the text.
They teach social skills in general, with lessons and levels over weeks – good if you want a curriculum. SoloWith starts from the one event you've already said yes to and gets you through it in a few minutes.
The signature moment is free – no account, no card.
No account needed
Monthly or yearly
Prices are shown in the app and on Google Play, in your currency.
SoloWith is practice for social moments, not therapy, and it doesn't diagnose or treat anything. If things feel heavy, the app shows free, confidential help lines. It never pressures you to go, never matches you with strangers and never tracks your location.
If you're in crisis right now, please call your local emergency number (112 in the EU, 911 in the US) or one of these free lines:
Yes. Free covers 2 event plans a month, rehearsals, door mode, reminders, the day-after check-in and all your data – no account needed. Watch a short video for an extra plan when you need one. SoloWith Pro adds unlimited plans and rehearsals, three message variants and your full history.
Any social event you're going to: a board-game night, a language exchange, a run club, your first meetup in a new city. Paste a public Meetup, Eventbrite or Facebook event link, take a photo of the poster, or type a few lines about it.
No. Start as a guest – everything works on your phone. Add a login only if you want a backup or to use SoloWith on another device.
No. There are no profiles, no matching and no feed – nobody can find you through SoloWith. It's a tool for you, not a social network.
Your events, plans and notes are stored on your device. With a login, they're backed up in the EU. To create a plan, the text it needs is sent through our server to an AI provider; we don't store it. You can export or delete everything at any time – details in the privacy policy.
One tap when you're outside and about to turn around: your saved opener, one tiny first step and a graceful exit if you need it. Door mode is free for good.
The AI plays someone you'd meet at that event. You trade three quick lines, pick how chatty they are (warm, neutral or a bit busy) and keep your best line for the reminder and door mode. You can stop at any time.
No. It's practice for social moments and doesn't diagnose or treat anything. If you describe a crisis, the rehearsal stops and the app shows free, confidential help lines.
SoloWith starts on Android. A web app is on the way, so it will also run in the browser on any phone or computer.
English, German, Spanish, French, Portuguese (Brazil) and Italian – the app, the plans and the rehearsals.
Paste the link – we'll take it from there. Go solo. Walk in ready.
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